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Ava Galanopoulou – Bessie Malpha :"Infidelity is charged to both"

Shortly before they met again on the stage of the Lambeti Theater, in the political review Long live Greek children, they are photographed together for OK! and they talk about marriage and infidelity.
You would forgive infidelity;
Ava: I don't believe in ownership. I had been cheated on in the past and I knew it. I had been told by my partner that he would stay at home, but my instincts told me that he was cheating on me. The next day we went out to eat and I told him: “Because I know you cheated on me, if you admit to me that you did it you will be a jerk. If you lie to me, we will break up". He makes the mistake and tells me the truth. So I get up too and leave and I had him running after me and yelling at me: “You're not okay. You said if I admit it you'll forgive me"! We have remained friends with this particular person.
Bessie: One is not led to infidelity alone. For me it is charged to both, that's why I have to forgive two people. I have not realized that I have been cheated, but it's not something I'm even looking for, because I'm not jealous.
That is, if your husband Gerasimos Skiadaresis told you he cheated on you would you forgive him;
Bessie: I might have lowered the notes of my voice a bit and spoken to him in the "Epidaurian" voice I use when I argue with my son, I wish I had kept his face for a while. What unites two people cannot be broken on the whim of a moment. The important are far more powerful than the unimportant, therefore infidelity should not be treated as a monstrous act that will define your life, but as an event.
Ava, why are you not married yet?;
(He chokes and knocks on wood). Oh bye bye! I'm sorry that some people think that way, because marriage is something completely temporary. Man has fought for years to maintain his freedom. What they do next and get stuck in a marriage; Most married people are deeply unhappy or lead double – if not triple – lives. Marriage in our time is completely passé. Even the "forever" they used to say, once upon a time it made sense because back then people died in their forties.
Bessie, you agree that marriage traps people;
Ava may be right, but my own life proves otherwise. It depends on how one understands the concept of freedom. For me the most important freedom is the freedom of the spirit and I consider that I have it secured.
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Source : yupi.gr